Some people find themselves feeling oppressed (trapped, frustrated, helpless) in their relationships. And when asked what the other is doing to make them feel that way, sometimes the only answer they can think of is . . . . . "nothing!" Relationships are all about coming together, give and take, compromise, and shared understanding of mutual goals. But what happens if one party to the relationship doesn't see things the same way, doesn't engage, or when there is an imbalanc